Men with Beards: Why I Love ‘Em!
Beards, they are everywhere at the moment. Do you love them? Loathe them? Do you have one? I personally have always loved facial hair, from sideburns to moustaches to full beards and mutton chops, I’m a massive fan of unruly man-hair. I’m not really sure why – I think it’s probably because I am not […]
How Many People Have You Slept With? Here’s the Number You Should Give.
This one seems to crop up quite a bit, and it shouldn’t. Like asking a woman’s age, or a man’s penis size, there are certain questions which are just plain rude. Yes, I have been asked the question a few times, and I no qualms about not telling the truth with this particular information request […]
Your Secret Messages: What Your Body Language Reveals About You
Body Language How people communicate with their bodies is an immensely complicated and detailed area. It’s always down to personal interpretation, but some motions and movements are common to us all. There have been studies such as the classic book Guide to Body Language by D Hartland & C Tosh that have indicated that the […]
A Married Man is Hitting on Me (and it’s Making Me Very Uncomfortable)
When a Married Man Hitting on Me causes me grief, I have to stop and think. I have never slept with a married man, and as a mid-thirties woman, this is quite an achievement. I have never been married, and I’m certainly no saint, but there are a few hard-and-fast rules I always play by. […]
How to Create a SWOT Analysis for a Relationship
How to Create a SWOT Analysis to help to Determine a Suitable Relationship A SWOT analysis is a structured planning method used to evaluate the Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, and Threats involved in a project or business venture, but they can be really useful as an exercise when you are trying to determine a suitable relationship. […]
Are You Re-Living Your Childhood Pain Via Destructive Relationships?
I have just finished the self-help relationships book I Love You and I’m Leaving You Anyway by Tracy McMillan. Life was tough for Tracy. What would you do if your father was a pimp, a drug dealer and a womaniser who left you abandoned to fend for yourself in a series of foster homes from […]
A Poem About a Man I have Forgotten
“Horrible Angel” Horrible angel who waits between my sheets Winged creature with dirty feet Neither nervously pensive nor discreet Every night he disturbs my sleep Murderous saviour he poisons my cup The sweetness revolts me, slow and abrupt I hate him and love him, I want him to see That happily trapped, I still wanna […]
A Crappy Little Love Sick Poem
I tried to follow your advice And heed your clear direction I tried to force your hand this time That’s only my perception And if the world ended tomorrow I would have regret I’d change the way I treated you The game, the match and set It really didn’t all go well But some of […]