How to show love to your wife | Tips for a happy marriage

Are you wanting to show love to your wife? Good! Today is the day my husband proposed to me, exactly one year ago – June 9th, 2015. We got married last November and since then – well, a lot has happened, to say the least. My hubby is an awesome guy, he really is. He […]

Comfortable bras vs. Sexy bras

Comfortable bras vs. Sexy bras | Finding comfort for your boobs

Comfortable bras vs. Sexy bras – what’s you verdict? I have big tits. Giant gazoongas. Lovely lady lumps and delicious double-Ds. It’s OK, I am not trying to make myself sound like your “dream woman”, it’s just a fact, OK? I have big boobs. Read my post My Big Boobs: Why They’re Not as Great […]

Realising your dream of being a writer (infographic)

Realising your dream of being a writer is something that you may have been thinking about for some time. Our dreams speak volumes about us as people. Sometimes they are laden with symbols and messages, but other times they point in the direction we are meant to go. For one of my readers, that dream […]

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How to nurture yourself when you’re feeling bad

Do you need to nurture yourself a bit more? Times are tough for me right now. That’s life, eh? So I need to nurture myself. I have had lots of happy moments in the last few years, but lots and lots of sadness too. Life goes up and down and I have written before about […]

how to say no and not feel guilty

How to say no and get away with it (& not feel guilty)

It can be hard to know how to say no. Sometimes I feel like I am doing way too much. I am constantly trying to make people happy and to “check all the boxes” in my life. This can lead me to feel tired, drawn and, at the end of the day, like I am […]

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Honeymoon phase: 9 things I’ve learned since getting married

Are you in the honeymoon phase? Marriage is awesome – seriously, get freakin’ married if you can. Both the hubby and I agree that we are not sure how we managed to get by before. Before I married my Noodle*, I was an independent woman who looked after herself. Now that I am a-wedded, I […]

social media trends 2016

7 Social Media Trends for 2016 That All Writers Should Know About

How on top of social media trends are you? If you’re a writer, chances are you’ll be keen to promote your online presence, whether you have a freelancing business, eBook to sell, blog or copywriting career. Social media is constantly developing and is now an essential part of everyone’s marketing mix, whether you’re a sole […]


How to make people think you’re sexy – 14 sure-fire tips

So, how sexy are you – really? Sexiness is something that doesn’t come naturally to some – but the good news is – there are many ways to “fake it” and convince the object of your desire that you are god’s gift to man (or woman) kind. Here, we examine what sexiness is and how […]


Do men need more emotional space than women?

Have you heard that men need more emotional space? My man needs a lot of personal space. I am only really starting to work this out, despite having first met him nearly five years ago. I follow him around the house, I talk over his favourite TV shows, I try to cuddle up to him […]

I am really bored. What can I do? Here are 10 things to do when you’re bored

If you are anything like me, you’ll get bored a lot. Spoiled for choice my whole life like the rest of my Generation Y, I always need something to keep me occupied and find it very difficult to do nothing at all. What we used to think of as ‘entertainment’ no longer really does it […]

The Island with Bear Grylls: are modern men weak?

I love Bear Grylls. Did you know he is a hard-core Christian? That’s not why I love him but I thought I would mention that upfront because when I tell people that, they don’t believe me. Personally, I am not very religious, but you know that I love to bang on about spirituality all the […]

Why is modern life so goddamned unfair?

Oh I could cry, I could really, really cry. Have you ever had a problem with all the companies that service your life? I try to stay off the grid as much as possible. I don’t have a car, I don’t own a house, I don’t have a gym membership. I don’t have a dishwasher, […]

What to do when you’re stuck: 7 questions to ask yourself

Are you stuck? Got a problem you need to fix? Found yourself in a tight place? Yep, we all know the feeling. There has been a flurry of activity online about the fact that having too many choices can cause anxiety. Personally, I have experienced this to be true. I tend to be a relatively […]