Have you heard? Apparently the female orgasm has changed – again. A recent paper has been released that suggests that women only orgasm through direct clitoral stimulation – and that the G spot, female ejaculation and vaginal orgasms are a myth.
“The internal/inner clitoris does not exist: the entire clitoris is an external organ,” says the study.
In short – the study suggests that women can only orgasm in a particular way – through external stimulation of the clitoris.
Well, that’s one way to rain on our parade.
Are vaginal and G spot orgasms a “myth”?
The study says, “G-spot/vaginal/clitoral orgasm, vaginally activated orgasm, and clitorally activated orgasm, are incorrect terms: like “male orgasm,” “female orgasm” is the correct term. The “vaginal” orgasm that some women report is always caused by the surrounding erectile organs (triggers of female orgasm).”
A few years ago, I would have believed you – really I would. I will not talk about “me” in this post – because I don’t want to make you blush – so I will talk about a very good friend of mine – Jane.
Jane told me that she used to only be able to orgasm in the way described in this study – by direct clitoral stimulation. However, Jane was always intrigued by stories that she heard from one of her girlfriends, Jenny. Jenny told Jane that she could have an orgasm in her sleep – without actually any physical contact to that part of her body at all.
The study also says
“Female ejaculation, premature ejaculation, persistent genital arousal disorder (PGAD), periurethral glans, vaginal–cervical genitosensory component of the vagus nerve, and G-spot amplification, are terms without scientific basis.”
Well, hurumph to that.
Hang on – lots of women say they experience many forms of orgasm
Obviously – the most hilarious thing about studies like this is the outrage in the comments section of media reports on the study. There are plenty of Janes and Jennies out there who claim that they have vaginal orgasms, that they ejaculate and that they have a G spot.
There are also lots of funny comments about why people need to orgasm at all.
People gleefully pointed out that really, there is no real need for the male orgasm either, in that case, as male ejaculation is not always dependant on orgasm.
Lots of people pointed out that the desire for orgasm leads us to have more sex, and can aide emotional bonding between partners.
Here’s a thought – Do animals orgasm?
So – this led me to question whether animals orgasm. Luckily, there are many legitimate resources online on this topic.
Long story short – it seems that yes, they do, but only animals of “higher intelligence” and as humans, we can only confirm the physical aspects of their orgasm, but not the psychological ones. So – we can see evidence of a physical reaction, but we cannot be sure of what they experience emotionally, because they can’t tell us. Read the article on animal orgasms here.
Even though we share this earthly plane with animals – we have a deeper consciousness than they do. We can plan, we can pray, we can think about the future in ways they cannot. We also have the capacity to use our free will to do good things and bad things – and that’s what we all will do in our lifetimes.
Are humans more advanced than animals? Or less?
There are lots of celebrities (Ricky Gervais – I am looking at you) that place animals on the same level as humans – or even higher. Ricky Gervais believes that dogs are “better people” than humans. He is also an atheist – so this doesn’t surprise me. He has obviously not spent very much time thinking about anyone or anything but himself and his own selfish life. He honestly believes that we get about 80 – 100 years of life – or less – and then “that’s it”.
Honestly – if I thought like that – I would be even more miserable than him. There is more to this life than simply living out your day-to-day existence. But we all know that anyway. Hopefully Ricky will wake up one day. He believes death is final. Totally final. Maybe for him – it will be.
OK – back to sex.
Sex between men and women can be transformative – this is “sex magic”
There is an esoteric theory that sex is transformative for human beings living on Earth. When we find someone we are attracted to – the body feels this attraction naturally. There is no “will” involved in deciding to feel attraction to someone (when it is genuine). This is a true gift from God – human bodies come together and through sex – they can transform.
The original sex magic
When a man and a woman come together, true magic can be created. Through the attraction of our bodies we can transform anew and build new earthly bodies. With orgasm – this can result in human bodies – physical earthy children. Some esotericists believe that if humans train themselves to withhold their orgasms – they can build up heavenly bodies.
Please do your own study on sexual transformation
I am not qualified to speak or write on this subject – so I urge you to do your own research here. Begin with this paragraph and then see what else you can find.
“The great priests had sworn silence, and the Key of the Arch of Science was hidden from the eyes of the people. Sexual Magic was only known and practiced by the great priests. The wisdom of the Serpent is the basis of the Great Mysteries. This was cultivated in the Schools of Mysteries of Egypt, Greece, Rome, India, Persia, Troy, Aztec Mexico, Inca Peru, etc.”